Changing priorities but what about love!!!

Sometimes you make a fool of yourself believing things that were never true. I sense love in today’s world is just limited to having someone by your side so that one can say yes he/she has someone. But in real sense they are poles apart when they used to be. They both think differently and oppose each other on every subject matter yet stick together just to make themselves prove this is what they need. And when they actually realize what has happened damage is already done.

People try to believe what they always heard of the other one rather than judging those things from time to time, to know, whether it relates to the real world or not. It never occurs to them until one day the truth has been spoken. As by that time his/her priorities has changed and they don’t feel that much attached. Even then that blind faith still hopes for some miracle to take place, to make everything alright, to change things that have been said.

Being a believer you never try to question what all has been happening around you. You don’t even recognize the changes; start taking them as they were the part of your life. When someone tries to shake that so called belief, you become restless. Everything starts haunting; but still this is not enough because the genuine impression of love holds you back that you worshiped, dreamed and fantasized. You are not ready to give it up. You let it destroy you bit by bit.

In a real sense, more than the other person you make it more vulnerable. You blame everything on that person. He/she did this and that. But what about you? Who told you to blindly trust anyone without knowing its whereabouts? Now, justifying yourself by saying they made you believe so is of no use. It’ll be like saying you agree with everything someone says to you. People do say yes we are there for you. But are they really there when you are in need?

Just try to analyze things before it becomes too late to act, too late to rectify what you have done and too late to understand what you lost or what you are about to lose. Love does matter, but not when it acts like a slow poison. Faith is necessary, but not when you begin doubting yourself. No one can ever see what you went through. They can just pacify. Only you have to appease your soul. You have to rise like a flame when things are no longer going to change.