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Isn’t it crazy listening to one song over and over again!!! Looks like I always write when I’m listening songs (perks of being an admirer of squeaky little bird). So what I’m going to share today is as trivial as it was last time. Sorry for the disappointment though; it is sort of a pre warning if you are not interested!!!


Let suppose we entirely want to be detached from all the dramatic events that life causes just because it will be more comfortable to manage affairs. Close your eye for a while (I recognize you are exiting to think another crazy trick). Good if you like it that way, then don’t do that, but clarify your ideas. What you demand and what you actually need are two different things. AND I’M TELLING YOU IN BIG BOLD LETTERS DO NOT CONFUSE BETWEEN THESE TWO!!! As I have done the same and now regretting over it. Not necessarily, it might affect you; hopefully unlike me, you will get over it. Have you ever noticed our mind tries to play games with us, very indecisive whenever needed, like a switch always on the verge of either of the two - ON and OFF. So first of all make it clear with him otherwise ready to lose; not in the literal sense though. As you cannot lose from the one you love in spite of losing that’s the whole point.

Hold back on checking your checkboxes every now and then until you stumble upon the correct one!!

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